Chapter 21 - The divorce agreement

We signed twelve weeks after Lily’s birth? Timeline maybe more like five months by now. Let's set five months after. Good.
Final agreement:
I kept the marital home.
Mortgage refinanced into my name with part of equalization funding.
Ethan received credit for his equity share.
Brokerage divided.
Retirement allocated.
Ethan completed company redemption of 6% shares.
Proceeds funded:
$2.1 million equalization to me.
His legal/tax obligations.
Personal reserve.
I waived further marital claim to his retained 9% company stake after negotiated valuation and separate-property accounting.
He retained 9%.
My family trust remained separate.
No spousal support.
Child support based on Ethan’s post-employment earning capacity, investment income, and parenting schedule.
Health insurance for Lily through whichever plan remained stable; initially mine.
Unreimbursed pediatric costs allocated proportionally.
Parenting:
I remained primary residential parent during infancy.
Ethan had two daytime periods plus one overnight weekly starting at five months, expanding by agreement as Lily grew.
Joint legal decision-making.
No Vanessa contact.
Not because mistress forever barred.
Because criminal no-contact involving me plus complete breakdown and safety concerns made it unnecessary.
Would Vanessa ever be around Lily if Ethan reconciled with her?
He said no relationship remained.
No need permanent clause beyond current safety.
Then judge asked:
“Voluntary?”
“Yes.”
Ethan:
“Yes.”
“Any coercion?”
“No.”
“Full disclosure?”
“Yes.”
The divorce was granted.
No courtroom speech.
Outside, Ethan stood by elevator.
“Claire.”
I stopped.
“I’m sorry.”
“I know.”
“For Paris.”
“I know.”
“For not being at Lily’s birth.”
“I know.”
“For the company.”
I looked at him.
“That one you’re still learning.”
He nodded.
Then:
“Can I ask something?”
“What?”
“Do you think I’m a bad father?”
I could have hurt him.
Instead:
“I think you made decisions as a husband and officer that I will never trust again.”
He waited.
“I also think Lily smiles when she hears your voice.”
His eyes filled.
“That’s all I can give you.”
“It’s enough.”
For now.
Then we left separately.
Two days later his sentencing memorandum arrived.
The prosecutor wanted:
Custody measured in months.
Probation.
Financial restrictions.
Defense wanted:
Community control.
May you like
No jail.
Judge would decide.