Chapter 4 - Why I was packing

The suitcase was not about one argument.
For four months, Florence had been living in our guest room.
Her condominium building suffered a water-line failure.
Two units below hers were damaged.
Repairs were supposed to take six weeks.
Then ten.
Then her kitchen renovation became:
“Since insurance is already involved, I might as well update everything.”
She stayed.
At first, I agreed.
I did not like Florence much.
But I understood housing disruption.
Christopher said:
“It’ll help her.”
Fine.
Week three, she reorganized my pantry.
Week five, she started opening our mail.
Week six, she criticized how much I spent on coffee.
I worked as a project manager for a healthcare software company.
Salary:
$104,000.
Christopher earned around $91,000 as regional sales manager for a commercial-security distributor.
We were comfortable.
Not rich.
Mortgage.
Cars.
Retirement.
Normal.
Florence still asked:
“Do you really need the expensive coffee?”
It cost twelve dollars.
At week eight she began telling Christopher:
“You work too hard for the house to look like this.”
Our house was clean.
She meant not clean enough for her.
At week ten, I asked when she was moving home.
Christopher said:
“When renovations finish.”
“Date?”
“Soon.”
Florence heard.
That night she cried at dinner.
Not loudly.
Just enough.
“I didn’t realize I was such a burden.”
Christopher glared at me.
I said:
“You’re not a burden. I’m asking for a timeline.”
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Then I found the transfers.